There's a two-part article on this site you ought to read, I think it will answer all your questions:
http://www.mp2kmag.com/a95--Geocodin....mappoint.html http://www.mp2kmag.com/a98--Geocodin....mappoint.html
Also, the Pushpin Tool will allow you to export the lat/lon's, this is also good if you don't want to have to do any custom MapPoint development to get up and running right away...:
http://www.mp2kmag.com/downloads/pushpin.tool/
Eric